Positive and negatice choices in story-telling

With freedom comes responsibility. And complexity. Most of the people are afraid to make positive choices. They make negative choices, because they feel safer to reject the change when the situation is shaky. They prefer that the situation remain constant instead of something happened.
Story telling is taugh because brain tries to protect you from something happend. You should make positive choices, means to be open to the expirience. Keep the sceene going on and make higher stakes.
The more negative you are the less things happend to you. Don't just gossip with people, get in their lifes, make an advanture.
One person has to offer a change and the other one really has to change just by changing the relationship. You need to work on getting the ideas to change relationships to make it automaticaly.